Question from Anonymous
I like one of my coworkers. He's committed to his girlfriend but he flirts with me a lot. We text each other all the time. If we ever have to drive anywhere for work he rides with me and vice versa. One day we were alone and he called me baby and sweetheart. He messes with me a lot and flirts all day at work. If I'm dating a guy and he doesn't like something about him then he doesn't hesitate to let me know. How can I get him to leave his girlfriend and be with ME?
I guess you would have to ask yourself, do you want to engage into a relationship with a man that is willing to leave his girlfriend so abruptly? If he does so, the action shows a strong component in his character that it is not likely to recede by virtue of entering into a new relationship.
Men are creatures of habit. Change almost always come from within. Outside influences rarely have an impact on a man’s demeanor or actions. If he is the type of guy that will step out on or leave his significant other at a moments notice, he will be that same guy despite whom he is with.
Just a little insight.
